"Before I had my two children, I would wear stilettos and skinny jeans," says the Redding mom. Demers is cursed with Mom Jean Syndrome -- ill-fitting pants that do anything but flatter her figure. Jennifer Eve Eisner, a fashion stylist and image consultant in Greenwich, has seen this unfortunate trend hit too many women. Luckily, it's fairly easy to break out of the Mom-jeans rut, according to Tina Broccole, a wardrobe stylist and founder of Style by Tina, a personal styling, wardrobe editing and personal shopping service based in Fairfield County. [...] if you're clueless about what's hot, pick up any fashion magazine -- most will offer a fashion spread showing current denim styles. Check out some retail websites and pay close attention to what denim styles celebrities are wearing, too. Armed with all that info, you should grab your best friend and head to some stores that carry great denim lines, such as GAP or a larger department store. According to the experts, the three most important points to keep in mind when shopping for jeans are fit, rise and wash. Not only does it help control muffin top, by fitting well around the waist, but it adds length to your legs. Straight leg, flared jeans work great, as do jeans with pockets on the posterior to help build volume without adding bulk. Go to your tailor or local dry cleaner and bring along the shoes you plan to wear with each pair.